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Posted on 06/05/2009

I am a single male naturist and i dont walk round the beach semi or erect i lay there and mind my own buisness. Yes sex goes on around me and it's not just the gay guys and bi curious there are a lot of swingers who entice single male naturists into their trists. And i must confess,only because someone said it was good for the soul that i have been enticed on occasions. And because i know i'm amongst friends it's some of the best sex i've ever had, simply because it's outdoors, the suns on you're back and it creates a heady mix of sexual abandon and euphoria, not to be missed. I love it. Owdnick



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Posted on 07/08/2009

We fully agree with Lightspirit. Families especially those with children avoid using Holkum Beach, North Norfolk U.K, because of the behaviour (Sexual Antics) of some. Sad to say it often the so called 'Single Males' meeting their friends in the dunes and the 'Paraders' walking up and down playing with themselves.

Fortunately this does not happen all the time and you can have marvellous 'Traditional' Naturist days at this wonderful beach.

See the 'Kingdom' TV series for shots on the deserted beach.



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Posted on 07/05/2009

hi im also a single naturist and i like to walk up and down the beach, swim in the sea, and lie about on the beach i have never been aproched by anybody for sex have seen a few sites but i think people shouldnt through it in peoples faces like that by having sex on a nudest beach because this is the sort of thing that gets official beaches closed and the beach ends up getting a name for its self and atracts the wrong tipe of people. Naturism is a varied walk of life from singles to couples to familys and no true naturist wants to bring his/her family down on to a beach where some one is getting there sexual kicks on the beach



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Posted on 06/10/2009

Not all males on 'Free Beaches' are Gay though we have never taken the risk of conducting a Survey. This would involve approaching individuals and asking them which is their preference. We think that many on the beaches are actually males with female partners that 'Do not participate in Naturisum' Wonder why not? We have the idea that quite a few men come to naturisum in their 40's or 50's or even later as perhaps a disatisfaction with other aspects of their lives and are seeking something new to bring them alive.



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Posted on 06/09/2009

Hi Brian i can uderstand peoples concerns about STD'S, (which i believe was something to do with telephones when i was younger)or worse diseases. Thats why i now keep myself to my self, yes people, especially men do seem to think if you're at the beach without a partner. You must be gay. Not so i'm completely hetrosexual, but it is flattering that someone still finds me attractive, even at my age, because they are generaly younger men. Owdnick



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Posted on 06/08/2009

To be perfectley honest and not wishing to be too grafic there's very little penertration, it's mainly handjobs. I know it probably goes on, but most poeple try to be careful. Because as you rightly say there's a very definite risk without a condom.



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Posted on 06/08/2009

As a couple, even if we are perhaps 'Past our sell ny date' we get lots of approaches from folks - especially from 'Single Males' of which there are literally thousands some genuine, some with Sexual Agendas. As for the Single Males on our 'Free Beaches' (Official Nuddie Beaches in the UK) there is a constant wariness of them due to the behaviour of just some.

Our U.K Clubs also seem to have a reluctantance to taking the S.M's and some even Single Females. There are of course exceptions.



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Posted on 06/08/2009

Sex with strangers and even folks you might consider you know seems like Russian Rulette.

It is rather like a Pyramid with you at the top and all those below with all their multitude of Sexual contacts. As for contacts with Bi's, just look at the statistics, even more lethal.

Get just one partner and keep them, if they are Nudist/Naturist, then all the better.



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Posted on 06/07/2009

I've wondered what the true risks of having sex with strangers really are, since it seems rather common. Guess it depends on your personal risk/reward computation. J.(nudenow)



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